Love & Dating

Ways to Get Your Ex Back Fast


If you are looking to get your Ex back we are here with some wonderful tips. We often see that it takes years to build a relationship but minutes or seconds of misunderstanding or mistrust to spoil it. Some of us get tensed, frustrated and start relying on wrong techniques like alcohol/drugs or retreating into a shell to forget the past. But actually it is much easier to get your ex back than on relying to such means.

How to get your ex back

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You had a boyfriend/girlfriend at one point of time means there is something in you which he/she likes. In due course of time you might have changed and that qualities of you which attracted him/her might have faded. You need to give a though for such qualities.

Some of us might think that by getting closer to some new person we could make our ex jealous and he/she will come back, but remember this is pure misconception .Don’t get into this trap. You should better make him feel that you still care for him/her and build faith in relationship. Let him know that your life is incomplete without him/her.  But don’t over attempt anything, it will show that you are desperate for that person and that might not help. You would need a more comprehensive approach to get your ex back fast.

Communication is of paramount importance in any relationship. Most of the breakups happen due to improper communication. We misunderstand something and extrapolate it to a extent without clarifying from our partner. Choosing right words to express your feelings is very important. Listening skills is as important if not more as speaking skill.

If you have a few common friends with your Ex, try to know more about him/her and start engaging in activities of common interest. You make play some game or watch a movie or go for a outing .During this time try to make him realize that you still care for him and use your past to remind him/her of some good past memories that you shared . Try to wear the same outfit that your Ex might have complimented so that he recalls some good time. Stop caring of what people might think. It’s your relationship and not people’s.

Everybody has his/her own personal space which he/she might not like to be intruded. Don’t ask too many personal questions as the person might get offended .Ask things of common interest. Let the person take his/her personal decisions, after all it’s his life not yours.

Try making your conversations humorous and light instead of getting into serious stuff every time.  Carry a smile every time you pass by your Ex. Remember smile is a small investment which can give you good returns. It makes you approachable. Don’t hesitate to start a conversation. Waiting for the other person to start conversation might not be a good idea as he/she also might me waiting for you to start. One might find it a little tougher in case of ex girlfriends but you can easily bait her back.

No relationship is perfect .There are ups and downs, roller-coaster moments .You will have arguments, small fights  but don’t let these things affect  you long built relationship. Keep these small tips in mind and you can get your ex back pretty Fast.

Author bio: Sarah del Rosario is a expert in techniques to get your ex back. Learn more from her at

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